Love is a tricky thing. It is not easy to understand what we want or what the person we are with wants. Often this leads to a rift in the relationship. The next step is then to just move on anyway. But here too lies a problem. You can’t let go. You understand that this person is not the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. But even then, it’s hard to move on. Why is that? Well, you can find the answers in your zodiac sign. And in others too. Is it your ex who can’t let you go? Maybe you can also find out here why others find it so difficult.
Which star sign can’t let go and why?
(21 March – 19 April)
Aries are used to getting what they want. Before you hear that, that’s the most nonsensical thing you’ve ever heard, hear me out. The thing is, people of this zodiac always give 100% when they get involved in something – or someone. They’re also pretty easy to get bored with, so chances are they’ll break up with their partners before the others do it themselves. Aries decides. This also explains why it is very difficult for Aries to accept when they themselves are dumped and others impose the decision on them. Then it is very difficult to let go. After all, they have given a lot to this relationship – because of their decision – (at least that’s what they think), so it can’t end so easily.
(April 20 – May 20)
Taureans are planners. Whatever they do, it always happens with a lot of thought. So once something becomes part of their life, they can’t let it go. For people of this zodiac, their relationships are like an organ in their body. A vital organ without which life cannot exist. They don’t necessarily like change. Moving on without the person who has meant so much to them is not possible. So they keep coming back and trying to improve their relationships.
(May 21 – June 20)
Gemini are very sociable people. They like to sit in big company and always want to have good relationships with everyone. So you can well understand how tragic it must be for them to lose someone they loved. Even if someone has not been nice to them, maybe even mean, it is difficult for a Gemini to part with that person. They want to be on good terms with everyone who comes into their lives. So they will always try to stay on good terms with everyone they know – potential for conflict is – if possible – left out. But this also means that twins can be the most annoying ex-boyfriends, because they will naturally do everything in their power to win back the love of their life. The best thing to do in this situation would be to maintain a casual friendship with them, but then also to show very clear boundaries.
(21 June – 22 July)
Cancer is the most emotional of all the zodiac signs. It’s only natural that people born of this zodiac find it extremely difficult to let go. If they are in a relationship, they have probably already fallen very hard in love. So once that happens, all they can see is happily ever after, there is nothing else. He or She is the One!
Zodiac signs who know that more than love is needed for a healthy relationship cannot understand these feelings. The reality is different for other zodiac signs. The silver lining is not just love, but also common interests, compromise, etc. Not that it isn’t important for Cancers, but here it’s the emotions that set the tone.
(23 July – 22 August)
Here the focus is on the Leo ego. They are used to everything being as it should be. The people who enter their lives do so on their terms. And if they enter on the terms of the lions, then please – when the time comes – they also have to leave on their terms. But, does it ever come to that? When things don’t go according to their lion-master plan, they sometimes fall in love even more. No, they don’t get angry, they fall deeper and deeper into the love hole. That’s why it’s hard for Leo to let go. But then it could also be possible that when they get their partner back, they leave him or her shortly afterwards. If they then realise that they didn’t want them at all, but that it was supposed to go according to the Leo head after all.
(August 23 – September 22)
So, here’s the scenario. You worked really hard on a job that was going to bring you your promotion, more salary and the all-important recognition from your boss and colleagues. You have devoted everything to this assignment. Even more than you initially imagined, you were totally consumed by it.
But then it turns out that your assignment was rejected. Do you feel the pain? That’s what happens to a virgin. They have invested so much in their relationship, with such perfection, that the end of it doesn’t seem acceptable at all. People from this zodiac sign are perfectionists. In their perfect scenario, if something doesn’t work out, goes despite all the hard work, they can’t stand it. You have to deal with that and find a solution.
(September 23 – October 22)
Well, Libra’s are the friendliest of all the zodiac signs. Let’s keep that in mind before we move on. Okay, there’s one more piece of info: people born in this zodiac are as lazy as a sloth, though. They don’t feel like going through the whole search process for someone new over and over again. That is, they’d rather fix something that’s broken and try to fix it; better than starting all over again. You should know this – so there is will to improve, but it can also be out of laziness.
(October 23 – November 21)
Scorpios don’t know how to share. What is theirs is theirs. Mi casa es mi casa. Which can be good in relationships if it’s their partner. But if someone has broken up with them, the Scorpio will just move on to someone else too.
This is something that people in this zodiac cannot live with. They are essentially a possessive type. Even during a relationship they will be very observant, who is moving around their partner, what do they want, what can happen? Any threat from outside is directly analysed and attacked if necessary. They are not able to see someone with someone else who was once theirs. So they will do everything they can to regain what was once with them. So this means they are fighting for their relationship, which is not bad per se.
(November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarians are free spirits. They live their lives to the fullest. Now, however, if they are in a relationship with someone, chances are that this new person will also live this same free spirit in the relationship they are in with the Sagittarius. So the experience is very intense and unique. That’s why a breakup is so difficult. Probably everything around them reminds the Sagittarius of the love they lost. The free spirit from before is overlaid by the free spirit in the relationship. This is of course a very difficult situation, which explains why it is so hard for a Sagittarius to let go. So people of this zodiac sign try again and again to return to their former relationships.
(22 December – 19 January)
Capricorns are very picky when it comes to a relationship. Chances are that after years of trying, it will be very hard to find a better one, or so they think. Can anything be done about fate?Capricorns believe that nothing will ever be as good as the relationship they were in. They can’t even entertain the possibility that anything will ever come close to filling that void. So they always find themselves going back to the person who broke their heart.
(January 20 – February 18)
Imagination and creativity form a very important part of an Aquarian’s life. Not only their own creativity and imagination, but also that of others. So they are particularly attracted to stories. For in their minds art imitates life, everything about these tales must be true. So they will wait. Wait for their ex-partners to wake up one day and realise how wonderful things were. They want to remain available for that moment. Therefore, they will not let go, because the happy ending has not been reached yet.
(February 19 – March 20)
Pisces are usually very private people. The wisdom that characterises people who come from this zodiac makes them wary of people and the things they tell them. But when they are in a relationship, they build it up by letting their partner into their private life. When such a relationship ends, they feel that all that has been entrusted to that person is wasted. They do not make their partners a part of them, but they give a part of them to their partners. That is something they cannot reclaim. So they would rather unite with that person than let someone insignificant keep their secrets. Because they have opened up with the hope that the partner is THE ONE.