Love is not always easy. Some couples know they have found the right partner right away. Others take their time. Even those who know right away don’t always have an easy life. They have to work to achieve the happiness their relationship has to offer. The most important thing is that they love each other. Because when there is true love in the equation, all challenges can be overcome. If you are a woman in love with a Cancer man, this is the kind of work you need to do. And if you’re true to your zodiac sign, I know you like challenges.
So, you want to know if the Cancer man and the Aries woman are compatible in love? Here’s what astrology tells us and, of course, some of my little secrets about the psychology of this couple!
Love and relationship between the Aries woman and the Cancer man.
This couple of the zodiac is complicated and problematic. But since they are passionate and evolving, it won’t be impossible for them. I hope they are willing to give it a try.
The Cancer man is someone who prefers peace and comfort in life. The Aries woman, on her part, will exhaust him with her excessive enthusiasm. She is indeed a sign of fire. The Aries zodiac sign tends to be thoughtless and impulsive in everything it does. This kind of perspective can confuse the Cancer man, who likes to proceed with caution.
What unites them is their sensitive nature. She doesn’t want to admit that she’s sensitive because she’s so busy showing the world how strong she is. But he is able to understand his true nature and the fragility of his soul. He can understand the pain she feels when her impulsive and reckless ways turn people against her.
He knows what it is like to be misunderstood. This kind of understanding can bring them closer together. They have a 4-10 Sun sign vibratory chart. This means that most of their associations will be in a business, professional or family setting, not a romantic one. Even the most romantic will begin their relationship in one of these places.
A harmonious Sun-Moon aspect in their natal chart promotes a positive relationship. This means financial success, but more importantly emotional and loving compatibility for this couple. However, a negative luminary or ascendant creates ups and downs in this couple with many hardships for both.
The attraction between the Cancer man and the Aries woman.
The beginning of this relationship is always magical. Remember this time and focus on respecting her.
He will charm her with his respectful and polite nature. There is no woman who does not love her royal style. This man knows how to charm and seduce like a gentleman, and our beautiful Aries woman feels like she has found her prince.
With him she feels liberated because he is not afraid of her strong character. All her life she has been rejected by men who could not stand her difficult presence. It is not a woman who likes to serve for her husband’s pleasure. It repels many men. But the man born under the zodiac sign of Cancer is attracted and excited by the Aries woman. And he lets her know it.
At first, her direct nature and dominating ways may excite or even electrify him. Until they clash with his manners. But all that will come later. He will make her feel like a beautiful princess again. Not a witch these ignorant men would have her believe.
It will be an exciting experience for them. However, they will soon realise that this is a relationship that will test their souls. It takes a deeply loving couple to navigate through these karmic trials. The 4-10 couple is known in astrology for the tensions and conflicts it creates.
The Cancer Man and the Aries Woman in Bed
Are the Cancer man and the Aries woman sexually compatible? As with every other aspect of this relationship, adjustments are needed.
They are two people who have different perspectives on life. They also have different expectations of their sex life. There are many compromises to be made and considerations to be made throughout the process.
First, he will be tender and attentive to her wants and needs. He will focus only on what she expects from him, but he will go down a slippery slope because she will naturally like it. She will love to be pampered and satisfied. And if you give an Aries woman what she wants, she will take advantage of it.
Her involuntary selfishness will be triggered. It always hurts the Cancer man because he expects to get back what he gives. However, if they keep a balance, he will continue to be a fabulous lover.
He will be imaginative, subtle and intelligent. He will realise all his fantasies in lighter tones. And he will do all this because she stimulates him. The Aries woman’s lack of cunning and openness about sex moves the Cancer man deeply. He sees the physical union of two beings as a celebration. He never understood why society had portrayed sex so negatively. But she shares her ideas and it brings her joy. She gives her all to their sexual union and it gives her emotional security.
The Aries woman brings innocence to any relationship she has. She has a passion and enthusiasm that is unlike any other zodiac woman. But his spirit can cool down when exposed to one of his mood swings. She cannot give him everything and show the same kind of commitment in return. What you need to know, my dear Aries woman, is that these mood swings in your Cancer man are temporary. And occasional. Watch the moon slowly disappear.
Quarrels and problems between the Aries woman and the Cancer man.
Every relationship has its problems, including this one. The root cause of all their problems is their sensitivity to pain. Cancer men are very easy to hurt. And it is even easier for the Aries woman to hurt her feelings. It’s just as easy for him to intentionally hurt her to get revenge. And the cycle continues.
They are both cardinal signs and therefore like to lead. Add to that the Aries woman’s desire to win, and you get a battle to know who has the last word. Aries women have to make a whole competition out of it. Just to make life more interesting. But in the process, this escalation can hurt the Cancer man. Without even realising how far this game has taken them.
Jealousy is a serious problem for both of them. Neither of them likes to be jealous. Nor do they shy away from making their partners jealous. Just to make sure they can make the other jealous. But it becomes a problem when the Cancer man crosses the line.
His obsessive nature bothers her when he becomes too possessive. She can handle it as long as it remains sweet and she feels appreciated. But when he wants to track all his gestures and movements, she feels like she’s in a cage. Nothing makes her angrier, though, than her tendency to keep secrets.
He doesn’t like to share his feelings. While she frankly tells all her moods and emotions, almost minute by minute. If she does not understand how he feels, she can become moody.
Is marriage between the Cancer man and the Aries woman a good idea?
The Aries woman and the Cancer man are capable of a successful marriage. They are. I don’t pretend to be optimistic. You just need to start addressing the basic personality differences between them.
He is an optimistic person who is always sure of winning. He also wants to win. But he is pessimistic and fears the future. Both love money, fame and recognition. But they differ on how best to get it.
The Aries woman will have difficulty understanding his desires to always earn more. His dilemma can be perfectly summed up in the quote from Jean Baptiste Baudin: “To be ambitious for wealth, but always waiting to be poor; always doubting one’s ability to achieve what one aspires to, is like trying to reach the East by travelling to the West. There is no philosophy that can help a person succeed if he is always doubting his ability to do so and thus attracting failure.
They will not agree on how to spend the money once they have acquired it. He wants to save. If she wants to spend. But this is where the Aries woman should withdraw. He is only trying to secure her future. This way they don’t have to worry about money.
A third person will always influence this marriage: his mother. There will be strong competition for the Aries woman. He adores her more than any other woman in his life and expects her to live up to his expectations. To live up to his expectations? She already has the highest expectations of herself. So, the cancer husband will have to retire over this.
But against all odds, he will entertain her. The Aries woman loves to laugh. So she will quickly forget the previous day’s argument when he wakes her up with a disarming smile.